So I go into a large, well-known store and was passing through the children’s department on my way through when I heard a small child screaming to her mother and throwing one HUGE tantrum. I walked right by them and the mother said, “You are not getting this if you are going to act this way,” to which the toddler screamed, “Yes I am!!”

I passed by them and continued to get the item I needed, turned around and headed back, following them to the checkout where, in fact, the little girl had the item.

Another example: A family member had her daughter in the shopping cart seat. She decided to stand up and do a little tap dance. She fell out of the cart, sustaining a concussion.

We are out in town, maybe the grocery store. A child talks back, throws a fit, wanders away, won’t listen and/or just makes a big scene. What is a mama to do?

When my children were small and in the major training stage, I would VERY CALMLY tell them to stop whatever they were doing. If they continued as I shopped, I peacefully and calmly took the children home…leaving my cart behind and dealt with them as needed.

We don’t want the child to consider that their actions are okay when we are not at home.

When my first 3 were small, it seemed like I disciplined all day long. I hated it, especially since my hsuband was on the road a lot. I am so thankful for cell phones! My husband would encourage me to remember the goals we had to raise up a heritage. He’d remind me that we were not, and still are not, doing a “one day at a time” thing, but rather, we do everything with a purpose with clear boundaries, nothing is arbitrary. And that training isn’t only the rod, but it is teaching the children about the Lord Jesus Christ as we rise up and when we sit down… and that we are a reflection of just a little of what He might look like, too! (frontals on your forehead). He reminded me that we were treading into new territory since our parents didn’t follow God’s Word.

Proverbs 13:24
He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

Do you see it? Diligently… to be up early with earnestness is the literal translation of diligently. Wow! God’s Word encourages us when the times get tough!

What an inspiration to have others in the body of Christ, to go to and encourage you to keep on keep’n on. I know it was a great help to me and many continue to be an encouragement to me.

Now that those particular kiddos are 22, 20, 19, respectively, and we’ve gone on to have many more, the fruit of those long, long days, has shown that it was oh so worth the time, the diligence, the patience, the love, the prayer, the teaching… everything. The younger ones watch the older kids’ example. There is so much peace in our household!

Last story: I was in another major grocery store chain last week. I noted that on several aisles, there were abandoned carts.

Tags: Biblical truths, discipline, Family

Use a long distance calling card. I have found Costco’s card to be the best buy. You can refill it, as well.

Make your own baking mix like Bisquick and bake lots of biscuits, muffins, coffee cakes and pancakes.

Turn lights off.

During the winter, bundle up and keep the house at 65 degrees. (Maybe warmer if you have a baby)

Get rid of either cell phones, or the land line.  Sometimes paying the fee to stop a contract is cheaper than fulfilling the contract. If you do use cell phones, get rid of extras like texting.

Get rid of credit cards and lines of credit.

Get rid of cable.

Eat more rice and beans.

Don’t even look at the store ads, only go to the store to buy what you need and stick to it.

Don’t run to town all the time. Consolidate trips.

Don’t buy a new vehicle.

Pray about each purchase that each dollar you spend is being used wisely.

Use the dollar store for purchasing gifts.

Stay away from the mall.

Wash your vehicle by hand as opposed to running it through a car wash

Shop thrift stores (with a list of needs). You can find some very classy clothing at very good prices if you shop around.

Pay bills online.

Keep a notebook with you to write down all purchases, even little ones. (See price book sheets on right under freebies) This will help identify the problem. Compare. Find out the best place with the best buys and shop there the most.

Use only cash when grocery shopping. Leave the checkbook and debit card at home.

Plan a menu and shop off that.

Incorporate a meatless dinner into your menu.

Incorporate a couple casseroles and soups into your menu. These usually tend to be stretchers and are less expensive than individual helpings of a veggie, meat, and bread.

Cut out sodas and expensive coffees. Consider making your own specialty coffee drinks at home using your blender.

Cut down juices to just breakfast unless fruit is served.

Make granola and yogurt or baked oatmeal for breakfast.

Change out light bulbs with fluorescents

Learn to change the oil in the vehicle, as well as the air filter.

Make your own cocoa mix, instead of buying it or mix half and half.

Don’t buy prepared gravy mixes, hamburger helpers, etc. Make your own from scratch.

Cut out prepared snack foods like chips and fancy crackers, unless for special occasions. Make popcorn in a good old pot on the stove or in an air popper. Make your own crackers. There are several recipes for crackers and snacks in the More With Less (on right).

Seek out marked down bananas. Let the kids eat the best ones. Peel and freeze the rest in a gallon zip lock bag. Pull out and make smoothies or banana bread.

Shop egg prices. Sometimes buying a large 3 dozen container is less expensive than the smaller containers. They will last for a very long time and are an inexpensive food.

Find a co-op for bulk foods like dried fruits, nuts, seeds, oatmeal, herbs, spices, vitamins and supplements, etc.

Buy generic when possible.

Make your own laundry soap.

Cook from scratch.

Make your own baby wipes.

Buy your cleaners at a janitorial supply store. They are so much cheaper and really good.

Try sharing postage with a few neighbors who have to mail the same utility bills to the same places.

Make your own envelopes instead of buying new ones by forming them from scratch paper. Take apart an envelope to use as a template.

The Tightwad Gazette (on right) suggests there are three ways to save (in a nutshell). They are: Buy it cheaper, make it last longer, use it less.

Wash out sturdy zip types bags to reuse. Just remember not to reuse any that stored meats or grease.

Use leftover rice by making a crust for a quiche. Do this by combining 1 1/2 c. of cooked rice, 1 oz of shredded cheese, and an egg. Pat out in a pie plate. For a larger quiche dish, increase rice and cheese portions slightly. Do not Pam or grease the dish. Bake at 425° for 20 minutes.

For cheap return address labels, cut out all of the mailing labels from your junk mail that has your address all nicely preprinted. Attach them to your envelopes with a glue stick, white glue, or tape.

Turning bulbs on and off wears them out. Since compact fluorescents are the most expensive type to replace, when leaving the room for less than half an hour, you should leave them on. When leaving for less than 15 minutes, leave tube fluorescents on, and when leaving for less than 5 minutes, leave incandescent on.

An inexpensive gift, if you can do calligraphy, might be to write a favorite Bible verse or saying then place it in a yard sale frame.

Buy and use a battery charger and rechargeable batteries.

Do not buy pre-processed potatoes (wedges, mashed, fries). Make them from scratch.

Make your own baking powder by mixing 1 part baking soda, 2 parts cream of tartar, and 2 parts arrowroot.

Make your own cream soup mix instead of buying premade, precanned soups.

Take shorter showers.

Insulate the attic.

Air condition one or two rooms, as opposed to the whole house. Likewise, in the winter, close off rooms that don’t need to be heated.

Hang your laundry out.

Put lids on all pots while cooking

Bake more than one item at a time.

When doing dishes, try filling the sink only half way.

Stop eating out or picking up something quick, especially if it means a fast food restaurant.

Learn to cut hair instead of paying someone else to do the job.

Add a little extra dry milk powder to baked goods to boost protein.

If you dine out, only drink water.

Less expensive snack foods would be popcorn, pretzels, Costco corn chips, or home made cookies.

The least expensive vegetables are cabbage and carrots

Get yourself a farmer’s guide from the extension office.  Find out when the produce your family enjoys the most comes ripe. Go pick it. Put it up. It’s not that difficult, really.

Buy from produce stands in bulk. Sometimes you can order ahead of time how much corn you want. Freeze it the same day you get it.

Eat before you go shopping

Have a planned list ahead of shopping time.

Make a master grocery list.

Try living on beans and rice for a week.

If you have little ones in disposable diapers, I have found Costco’s to be the best buy.

Stop using paper towels and use kitchen hand towels, instead.

Buy your tp at Costco in a large amount and just store it somewhere. It’s a good buy and good quality.

Bake. Fresh bread will fill a tummy like nobody’s business and makes hearts happy.

Take cash with you when you go shopping or purchase a gift card and just fill it with the amount you have limited yourself. Plan on keeping a little in there for incidentals, especially when you start this.

Don’t cater to picky eaters, unless it is your husband.

Eat hot cereals in the winter. You don’t even need milk.

Stop buying tooth paste. It’s not good for you, anyway.

Use borax and oxy mixed together instead of laundry soap or dish soap for the dishwasher.

Buy inexpensive Suave shampoo and dilute with water to use in your pump soap dispenser

Eat leftovers for lunch.

Powdered milk works well instead of real as a substitute. I make my yogurt with it, even.

Find a dent and nick store.

Ask your grocer if you can purchase old bananas at a discount.

I’m sure this list is incomplete. Perhaps you have some ideas up your sleeve that I have not come up with. Please share!

Tags: Food, great finds, kitchen cares, recipes, winter